This Job Blows: His and Her views on Improving Oral Sex - Her View

Executive Image International
10/2/09
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How to Make Oral Sex Sweeter

His and Her views on Improving Oral Sex

Some feel that just getting oral sex would make life sweeter. Enjoying sensations that only the mouth can offer, touch and caress different than any other, oral sex is sought after by both sexes. I've been told before that a blowjob feels different; it's more playful than sex. Many men say it just feels good and that it is indescribable beyond that. Men enjoy the warm, moist sensation of a blow job and find that the feeling can’t be replicated with intercourse, thus making it irreplaceable. Oral sex for women is the same. But with all great pleasures in life, they can be improved upon and made better. Technique can't be done, taught or learned by all, but there are some ways to improve your oral sex life that are not technique specific. It's starts with mouth over head.

Look back at the American Pie franchise, they have made movie after movie based on the assumptions that everyone else is having sex or receiving amazing oral sex, but you. Just like there is always hope at the end of the movie for our unblessed leading characters, there are ways to improve your odds for getting and receiving better oral sex. You have to address some of the fear or doubt involved in the practice. The original American Pie battles this issue when the character Kevin Myers (Thomas Ian Nicholas) hesitates and is nervous about giving his girlfriend (Tara Reid) oral sex for the first time. Myers has the wise advice of an older brother and a coveted book of sex secrets to consult and ease his worries. Consider this your book of tried and true methods of improving oral sex. Improving the getting and giving part, because no one likes a selfish partner.

For me, cleanliness is next to willingness. When my partner is nice and clean and freshly bathed, I am more willing to pounce. The fresh scents and soft skin are appeasing to touch and become intimate with. Oral sex puts your face up close and personal with your partner's private, rarely uncovered parts. It’s important to stay clean. Bacteria can easily collect in the moist, dark area covered by panties or boxers. While men have more of a chance to air out, non breathing materials can cause a host of problems for females. Good hygiene is the unspoken commandment number one of improving your oral sex life. I know my partner feels the same way I do about a clean pallet. Sometimes we start things with a shower together. It's warm, wet and clean fun.

Which brings me to my second commandment of better oral sex: Sex should have flavor. Well, technically sex already has a flavor and few would describe it as a good one. How do you change the way you taste? There are sexual enhancement products on the market that help improve the taste of bodily secretions. Cum has a taste. Generally, male cum is salty and bitter. Female cum is often described as the opposite and said to be slightly sweeter. Your bodily secretions are a result of what you put inside your body (you are what you eat). In fact, cum is primarily made up of proteins, vitamins, sugars, salts, cholesterol and water. There are products on the market that are meant to super charge your system with potent fruit extracts to increase the sweet and mask the salty. The same effect can be achieved by drinking 10 glasses of pineapple juice. Eating foods that are high in citric acid helps to break down those salty tastes, making it easier to swallow. There is also the inexpensive water fix. Increasing water intake can also help to flush toxins out of your system. You can even find products that not only add flavor but they keep the good times coming. These products are both a stimulant and a semen sweetener. They use natural herbs and ingredients to increase blood flow and sex hormones for improved erection response, firmness and stamina.

Finally, my last commandment is: add something tasty. The practice of using whip cream, body icings and chocolates, or flavored lubricants isn’t new. These additions to the bedroom can not only improve eagerness to explore private regions, but also add some fun and excitement to a routine bedroom performance. Oral sex starts with licking and what better way to guide the licks than with a little topping. You can use these products as a game. Encourage your partner to lick certain areas and progress over your body until they hit the right spot. Edible topical creams come in a variety of flavors. If gagging is a problem, you might try something mint flavored as it is meant to help sooth the back of the throat and promote more saliva production. It is also known to have a soothing effect on the stomach. The only caution with these tasty additions is that you might end up a little sticky.

My suggestion for great oral sex; start with the couple's shower, pop a sweetening stimulant supplement, proceed to a lickable road map and then repeat.